Why you should go to Bali

Well sadly, like any good story, there’s an end! To complete this journey I will give you my comments about Bali and why I hope one day, everyone has the chance in their lifetime to visit what’s known as the cradle of civilization, Magical Bali! I have been doing some research but have not been successful to find the real reason behind its name “ The cradle of civilization” or “morning of the world”, I am sure I will find the answer but it will require more research and time, which I don’t have now. I will also answer some questions, which I was asked throughout my journey by various people I met. From the philosopher in the airplane to the taxi driver in Bali, and to those in the Western world . I will also give you some tips about travelling to Bali, just in case one day, you are blessed by life and have the opportunity to visit Bali. Once I complete my book, I will work on inserting images for each blog and have someone correct my text. I will also include some unique facts about their tradition.
Myself, I sincerely, want to have a house and a business in Bali. I would buy a property in the mountains, where the weather is similar to our summer, with breath taking panorama view. If ever, I don’t have the chance to be a homeowner, at least I want to return with my husband. I want to go when we will not be rush by time and visit Australia, Japan, Vietnam and Thailand as well. If you come all the way to the other side of the globe, you might as well, visit those countries. All, more beautiful than the other.
Travelling tips
ACCOMODATIONSBali is rich in architectural inspirations and craftsmanship that is outstanding. Wood carvings are everywhere, so are stone works. If I didn’t have so many books to carry and luggage to pack each time, I would off change hotels every three days. If you stay 3 nights you always get better rates. There is so many beautiful places to see, all with their own uniqueness. Often, the curbside look, like we call it in North America, is not very inspiring , once inside the grounds you may find yourself entering in a small oasis of wonder and beauty. So, don’t stop yourself from looking at a place just from what you see first. Many places are beautiful and worth visiting, not all of them are found in the books or web sites like Lonely planet. Many restaurants have booklets with ads of accommodations. They are one of the best way to discover these places, as some of them or not near the main roads but well worth the drive. If you are looking for houses to rent, many realtors can help you with this, or find a copy of the local journal, there is usually pages and pages. There is more and more foreigners immigrating to Bali, and they are opening places that are eco-friendly, sustainable and more. I also notice, the price on internet are what they are and what you will pay if you book through internet. But when you are there in person, negotiating a price you can do better. If you go from places to places, you will begin to see, who really offers the best deal. Sometime a good deal is not so good, for a couple dollars more, you could of have towels, waters, soap and shampoo, breakfast, air conditioning, etc… these are details that vary from one place to another. You will need to compare and ask a lot of questions.
You can find accommodations for very cheap. From $10 a night to $600 a night, there is so much to choose from! It is surprising how a $12 a night accommodation can be actually pretty good. Reviews, on web sites, are usually pretty accurate. I would off never chosen a $12 a night place, but the reviews were very good and it was near where I need it to be. The best accommodations are often between $60 to $100 a night, for the average traveler. If you are an executive, with a big budget, the sky is the limit!
In Bali two people with $100 a day budget can live comfortably, all three meals included and often left over for an excursion. Most accommodations include a breakfast and often have an all you can eat breakfast buffet. Those are the best, with plenty of fruits and juices and a omelet bar. I strongly recommend so try some of the Balinese traditional breakfast item, like the black rice pudding, who is so delicious, don’t stop yourself, just for what it looks like, it worth the look.
Bali is not for people out of shape or overweight. Unless, you only visit the beach areas. Bali is built on mountains and cliff, so every place you stay as many stairs. You will rarely find elevators as there is a rule in Bali, no hotel should be higher than the coconut trees. If its three floor high, it is only starirs. If you are grasping for air when you climb stairs in North America you will be worst in Bali with the air being so heavy and humid. If you have a physical condition that impairs you to climb stairs, I would only stay at places that are near the beach. Any other place would be mountainous and hilly. Often accommodations are built on the edge of cliffs.
If you are travelling with kids, strollers are not the best solutions. Most parent travelling with kids in Bali have a baby sac. The sidewalks are design for heavy rains, so they are flat, for only a few feet, followed by a steep slated hollow like a gully.
EATING IN BALIBalinese is not a place where you will have to worry about liking the food or not. The dishes are vibrant, colorful and so delicious. Even the small places in small alleys can be good. Don’t let the price fool you, you can eat a full meal for $7 in a restaurant that is an extension of a family compound and it will be just as good as a restaurant located on busy streets for $15. You can find international food everywhere is Balinese dishes are not suitable for your diet. Many places offer organic food, raw food, Ayurveda drinks, tapas, sushi, you can even find hamburgers and fries. You will not go hungry in Bali. The entire month I was there, I never got sick or even close to it. I miss the food very much; it is so colorful, fresh, healthy, tasty and very well balanced. Often the alcoholic drink cost more than the meal, eating in Bali is pretty cheap. It is a very trendy place, so they are to date with what is hot and what is not. Most restaurants don’t take credit card, make sure you ask first. If they do, you will pay extra for sure. You can eat at any time of the day, and some restaurants are only open for diner.
For breakfast, since most accommodation included breakfast with your room, very few places offer breakfast. But you can find some good breakfast; I actually had one of the best breakfasts in a long time in Bali. You must try one of those Ayurvedic juices, they make a difference in your day, especially in humid climate, little help from herbs and plants, is welcome.
They are very thoughtful; In many places they will great you with a fresh cold towel to refresh you before your meal. It is so humid, you will eat less.
If you have rented a villa or bungalow, you will find all your fresh fruits and vegetables at the market, but for meat and things like dairy, etc… you can find supermarkets with everything you need. You can even find wine and beer in the supermarket. Bing Tang is a well know chain in Bali, with quality and lots of variety. Ubud as also an organic Farmers Market which I strongly recommend, it is not located at the same farmers Market downtown. The organic Farmers Market is where all the foreigners go, it is clean and so nice. Look for a paper to find out their hours of operation.
FOOD ALLERGIES
If you have allergies to fish and peanuts you will have to be extra careful. Balinese dishes are often made with a shrimp paste, and lots of peanuts are used. The shrimp paste is in pretty much everything that has been spiced. If you are only allergic to peanuts, it might be still possible to find restaurants you can eat, but if you are allergic to other nuts, it will be difficult for you. Candle nut is like Macadamia, it is used to make the spice blend that is in every Balinese dish, you wouldn’t know it is there unless you know how it is made. They also used a lot of Cashews.
EXERCICE
High end hotels and resorts, all have well equip gym and trainers. If you are not staying at a resort, there is many good places offering, yoga, meditation, pilates, etc…Yoga and meditation seems to be the most popular in Bali. The local paper and magazine have many ads. The yoga barn in Ubud is an excellent place. Bali is very spiritual, therefore you will find more excercices that are related to the mind the body and the soul. I didn’t see any aerobic classes, but I wouldn’t want to do aerobics in this kind of humidity. If you feel sweating is what works best for you, try the yoga in a very humid and hot room, depending on each studio, the name vary, but they always refer to yoga practice in a hot environment.
EXCURSIONS
Don’t be fooled by the price of excursions. It is very Western common thinking that the more expensive something is, the better service and product you get. In Bali this is not necessarily true. If an excursions cost less than a other, and often with a substantial difference, it does not mean you will get less for your money. Very often a cheaper cost for a certain excursion, just means they have a very good reputation and owned by Balinese. The most expensive excursions are most often owned by foreigners, and you will get less for your money.
Refer to Lonely Planet and references of this sort to read reviews of excursions. Usually people writing the reviews are travelers, they have been around and use those reviews for guidance in many of their decisions. They are 90% of the time accurate. I strongly suggest you do the Eco Bike tour. There is many Bike tour and I had not seen advertisement of the Eco Tour at my hotel, I had to look their number on internet. Lonely planet had also their coordinates. It is in dead the best cycling tour you can take. One of the girl in my group was on her third time, always bringing different people along with her. The guide had no problem recognizing her! If you want to have even better, I strongly suggest you contact Sang Made Merta at; sangmer@yahoo.com, 62-812-3651778. Sang Made has very good English, which is unusual for Balinese. You can easily understand him. He is also very well interconnected with the tourist industry and worked for many years at one of the high end resorts. He is very passionate about his work with tourist and wants to ensure you will have a true Balinese experience and be fully satisfy. He will educate you on anything you wish to know about Bali. He will customize is excursion to your need and wish.

GETTING AROUND
It seems in Bali, everyone with a car can become a taxi driver when they feel like it. In Depensar, the blue cars are officially the taxi drivers with permits, but outside Denpasar there is no longer any bleu cars! So when you find a taxi driver you like, ask for his card and call him every time you need a taxi. They have cell phone there and they use them just as much as us! If your taxi driver does not have a card, because they are being printing (as everyone as the same excuse), most likely your taxi driver is a taxi driver Du Jour! Nevertheless, they are always pleasant, do you need a taxi is the most frequent question ask in Bali! Once a scooter stop beside me, as I was walking, asking me if I need it a taxi, his scooter was already full of stuff everywhere, I should of ask where he had intended to have me sit! As I mention before, they rarely have change, so be prepare otherwise a $2 dollars ride can cost you $5. Taxis are so cheap there, no need to take the local bus. The local bus would be a good option if you are going far and on a very small budget. Otherwise there is a lot of places selling seats in a mini van, more comfortable than the local bus for very little, but you need to be minimum two. If you are travelling alone, the local bus, is your best option or negotiate with a driver a fix price to the destination you wish, often you can get a good price. Depending where you are, but in some areas, all you might be able to find as a reliable driver is one with a scooter! They are very careful usually. I also find the drivers very respectful of their customers, while waiting for you, if they smoke they will not sit in the car and smoke, they will smoke far away from the car so the smoke and smell does not bother you. I had a very reliable driver with a very clean jeep. Dewa would pick me up whenever I need it or anywhere. If I return, he would pick me up at the airport. You can contact Dewa Made Ngurah at isiaty_balitour@yahoo.co.id or cell phone number; 6281-338-583-754 Dewa will gladly help you arranging any transportation you might need, at honest prices.
It is very easy in Bali, to rent a car, jeep, scooter, motorcycle and very cheap. But you must be aware that they drive on the other side, there is rarely any streets name or any indication once you get out of the city. I kept asking everyone, but who do you know where to go, the answer was always, you just know. Crossroads, rarely have any signs of direction to a nearby town or which way this road leads to. Also, there are no traffic rules. There is rarely stop or lights and if North America, the rule might be the one to your right as priority, in Bali the priority for everything seems to be, who honks first! You will need to learn the language of honking and understand it, as it is also a signal to you! You might think, it don’t matter if there is no indication, you can always ask, usually when you go out of the city limits, people rarely speak English, and you might have a hard time finding someone that can give you directions. I have seen maps, and they are not like or maps, there might be a road on the map, but it does not indicate you, you need to take the tiny ally to your right to reach that road, the map just shows the main road. Even by foot, maps are confusing! I wanted to rent a motorcycle so bad, but I didn’t want to jeopardize my health. The shifter for the gears is also on the other side, when you drove all your life knowing your gears are on the left, it quickly involves too much thinking, you need to think about the road, looking for street names, etc… It is very easy for Europeans and Australian but not for us. Also, when you drive a scooter or motorcycle, it is a bit like India, it seems everything is permitted if you drive one. If there a space for you, you go for it, even if there is already 4 motorcycles!


HOT SPRING BATHS
If you intend to try the wonderful spring bath of Bali, here a few words of advice. Do not wear anything, white, beige or yellow. The minerals in the water will stained your swimwear in a reddish or rusty color. Do not go to the spring waters when it is a Balinese holiday or there is a celebration coming. As the water is for them, purification, you might find it very crowded if there is some kind of celebration coming up, that involves purification. Also attend those springs in the morning; they tend to get very crowded after 11:00am. Anyone travelling near a hot spring should experience them, as they are very beneficial for the body. The entry fee are usually very low, anywhere between $3 and $10 dollars. Most places have lockers you can rent to lock your personal belonging. Don’t forget your suntan lotion, you should apply the lotion only to your face.
VISITING TEMPLES
If you wish to enter Temples, you must respect their traditions and wear a sarung, and appropriate top. Some Temples will even lend you one, in exchange of a small donation. There is so many Temples to visit throughout Bali. You should also educate yourself on the fundamentals of Balinese Temple, there is always at least three temple in a town. It is very interesting to learn the facts and belief the Temples have. They are very respectful of us, you should do the same, and even if no one is watching a Temple, do not enter without wearing a sarung. They are everywhere, you can buy one anywhere from $2 to $100 for a pure silk one. The sarung must be worn by the men as well. Photos are allowed and will provide you with many opportunities to take breath taking images of Bali. A woman in her menses should not enter any Temple as well. They would be horrified if they found out you did! This would probably require some special spiritual cleaning of the Temple! So, please respect their traditions. In Ubud there is one that is famous for being guarded by the Monkeys, the Temple itself is not spectacular, but the Monkeys are truly guarding this site. No one forces them to stay there, and they could go anywhere at any time, but they never do. In the sacred Monkey forest, they even have an area that if you enter, the monkeys will not be happy, as they feel it is their private space. There is another famous Temple that is guarded by poisonous water snakes. I didn’t have the chance to visit this one.
MEDICAL ATTENTION AND MEDICATION
If you are taking medication make sure you have everything before you leave. Pharmacies are not a common thing there. You will find herbs and natural medicine shops but rarely a drugstore. Item like toiletry can be found at the supermarket and small corner stores, along with things like headache medication, heart burn, upset stomach and more. If ever you injured yourself there, there is hospitals, from what I gather from other tourist which were injured, you will get a good and reliable service. If you have medical problems and wish to address them naturally, beside the post office in Ubud, there is a medicinal lady that can do treatment, she has also a gift and can tell you what is wrong with you. It is the same lady as the book Eat, Pray and love. You must leave your Westerner mind home if you intend to experience a treatment with her. But it is effective and you see results right away. You also need to be aware that you will most likely be in her shop for hours and if you are prude, this is not the type of treatment for you! If you wish to experience something different, it is worth every penny.

MONEY
Don’t bring travelers check. The banks don’t even want to change your travelers check, if they do you will have to make a few trip and they only allow $200 a day. In the end it will cost you more money than using the ATM. If you use the ATM smartly, it is your best option. Just be aware of the limit of the ATM you are using, some will only give you $50 others might allow $300, the less you use it the less transaction fees you will be charged. Credit cards are only accepted at upscale places and high end hotels. If they do accept credit card, they are not shy to charge you a 3% fee on top of your bill. If you bring US dollars, strangely in North America, no one wants to take your $100 bill, in Bali, the bigger the bill the bigger the rate. You will get less for $20 dollars bills than $50’s and $100 is the best exchange rate of all. If only, I had known! Bali is also pretty safe, it is amazing how you go into these tiny shops to exchange your money, and they have hundreds and hundreds of dollars, day after day, and no one goes in there to rob them. There is no security and often a tiny woman is tending the shop alone. Thieves are not a common thing in Bali, I am not saying they don’t exist, as a thief could be very well, a foreigner, but it is very safe. Safer, than anywhere, I have been. In Bali a $5 bill is actually a large bill for them, they never have change and often when you change money, you will get either lots of $5 or lots of $10, rarely you get denomination that are higher. You will find that you can go a long way in Bali with a $5 dollars bill. It is pretty easy to figure out the money, you just remove a few zeros. $10 is $ 100 000 Rupiah. Make sure you always have plenty of $1 and $2 dollars bills (10 000 & 20 000 rp) on you. A cab ride is often $2 but might cost you $5 if you don’t have change.
80% of the time, the tip is included but it is so minimal, it is recommended you leave them extra. For them .50¿ is a lot and so little for you.
Changing money is not a problem, shops, post their rates on a board on the sidewalk. Always change your money between Monday and Thursday. Never on Friday, Saturday or Sunday as the rates are always lower, you get more for your money when the banks are open. If a Balinese holiday is coming make sure you change your money a few days before.
You will see many banks but only a few banks accept to deal with foreigners. If you did bring travelers checks, you are best to exchange them in the shops. The bank will make you come back two hours later, and often you come back and they will say, sorry the internet or computer was down, so they could not confirm with American Express if your checks are good or not. They also only exchange two hundreds at once. The shops can exchange up to $500-$700 at once. But be aware, sometimes the shops, or the bank will argue you saying, it is not the same exact signature, make sure you are signing exactly the same way, otherwise they will not cash it in.
SPAS
Bali, is the epicenter of pampering! They have a way to take a massage and make it their own, adding their own touch and techniques. Avoid spas that have a Japanese name and fancy fronstore, you will pay astronomic price there. They are owned by Japanese and have almost exclusive Japanese clientele. As they are known to spend the most money to preserve their beauty. You can get the same and better treatment without the extra frills for a fraction of the cost. You can be in a spa for 3-4 hours, being pampered and your bill will be less than $25! While in Bali, try to have at least one massage a week, it is so beneficial for your skin, your health, your moods. A simple shampoo there , can turn into a myriad of talented hands and a short trip to la la land! Don’t miss out on such experience. Balinese woman are truly gifted and are very timid, they will not bombard you with questions while you are trying to relax, they work tirelessly on your body, firm but gentle touch always. I was very impress they actually do pedicure the way I believe they should be done. I used to do Holistic pedicure, and people prefer to sit in a chair, that gives you some kind of massage, which I have always found annoying, because it is not the real sensation of a massage. And they don’t feel like they are having a good pedicure if there feet doesn’t soak in water for 10-15 minutes. In Bali they do it the right way. Have you ever try to sand a piece of wood that is wet? If you try, you will see that sending a wet piece of wood, gives you poor results and you will need to send again. It is the same with our dry, crackled feet! If you wet it before, you can never do a good job, and it actually damages your skin. You never notice that not long after a pedicure, already need more buffing? If you do it on dry skin, the job is well done in no time and you don’t need to do it again, for a long time. In Bali, they do the feet soak at the end, with flowers and real botanical and essential oils. No fancy equipment, just a beautiful bowl, fresh flowers and water! That is a real pedicure! I would hope one day, consumers will get it and accept to have a different kind of pedicure. I would trade that nice comfortable chair for the leg massage they finish the pedicure with. If you are having a pedicure at a place where they truly know the art of pampering, they should apply a hot towel on your feet. In a split second, you feel the difference, it will pump your blood back up, and you will feel so good. Now, when I have a pedicure without the hot towel I never feel it is complete. The Balinese have not yet, caught on to this, but the Thailand spa have, so I assume Bali, will one day have the perfect pedicure.
You must also try their facial, there is nothing better than a real facial and this is rarely available at any spa in North America. A truly beneficial spa, should do facials with botanicals and organic matters. I had a wonderful cucumber and honey facial, my skin was radiant for days and my sunburn redness disappeared. I could talk about their various treatments for pages and pages, you are just gonna have to go and find out for yourself.

SHOPPING
Shop, early in the morning. For Balinese, the good luck of the first buyer is very important. If they didn’t make any sales at the end of the day you might get a deal. The shops owned by foreigners will not bargain any prices or make any deals. Those shops are easy to recognize with their nice glass doors and windows. Very modern looking. The markets and small Balinese shops are the best place to bargain. Of all Bali, Ubud is the shopping paradise and don’t make the mistake of thinking you will get a better deal in the next town your heading off. It will be more expensive and lot less choices. The next time I go to Bali, I won’t bother packing a suitcase. Many people also buy their suitcase there, because they get a fancy brand name for very little. The shops in Ubud have something for everybody, almost. If you are overweight, you will have difficulty finding clothes for yourself. Nothing goes over size large, there! But if you are a small or medium size, your choice are endless. You will find the perfect clothing to wear in climates like Bali. It is so hot there, even a t-shirt is too much! Spaghetti dresses, light skirts, spaghetti camisole are the best to wear. Anything to heavy will stick to you and get soak.
If you want to buy gold, there is an artisan village near Ubud where all the handcraft men, crafted beautiful 21k gold jewelry. You can also buy really good gold in the Ubud market, it might surprise you, as the gold shop might be near the meat or the fruit vendor, but it just as good quality. If you get to know and trust a Balinese, you may want that person to make the purchase, as there is a Balinese price for gold and one for foreigners.
Before heading to Bali, don’t even bother getting a pedicure or a manicure, save your money you can have a pedicure anywhere from $6.00 to $25.00 the average with a leg massage and fancy nail polish is around $14.00 at the most. If you go to a Japanese owned spa, you will pay $25-$45. Japanese owned spa usually have a Japanese name so there are easy to recognize and their design is lot more fancy than your typical Balinese place. So if you don’t mind the décor, you can have a really good pedicure, in a shanty looking place, with a really good massage for $12, or pay for the ambiance and have an ordinary pedicure.
Another thing you should not bother to bring. Leave your make-up artillery home. No one wears make up in Bali, and when you do, you stick out of the crowd! It is so humid and hot, make up on your face will feel uncomfortable, foundation will probably cake on your face and anything else will run. It is so humid, you don’t need moisturizer either. If we are on the subject of leaving things home, I would also add high heels. Most likely you will not wear your high heel once. And if you do, they will be doom for the garbage after one night! Most of the sidewalks and resort are handcraft with little pebbles, making impossible to walk on high heel. In the street, it is like cobble stones. For the space they will take in your suitcase, it’s not worth bringing any, you can buy a pair for really cheap there , if you insist on walking with high heels.
ANSWERING ALL YOUR QUESTIONS
What was to most unique thing you saw? I was very fortunate to see a really rare sight. A Komodo dragon who is in fact a giant lizard! The Komodo dragon made the news upon my return, for the first time ever, a female Komodo gave birth to six eggs without being expose to any males. To date, only a few animals have been recorded to be asexual, the Komodo dragon was not known to be one of them.. You rarely see one because they are very shy and run from humans. I tried to get a picture of it, but it was going to fast into the deep jungle to snap a photo. Komodo dragons are also one of the oldest species on earth going back to prehistoric time. They are truly as big as the say they are. They have a face that is cuter than the rest of their body. They are not very colorful, mostly dark brown.
What is your biggest deception about Bali? They allow merchants to sell Ivory. Elephants are killed every day, simply for their ivory tusk. When you think an elephant takes 20-22 months before giving birth, and is a toddler for another 24 months, it is obvious at this rate if we keep killing them, they will disappear. Balinese are very talented and make beautiful sculptures and carvings with the Ivory, there is no doubt about that, it is a beautiful.
What did you like the most about Bali? That is a tough answer, because I liked so many things I cannot answer with one word. I like the most is their people and their culture. And culture includes food!
What would you change about Bali? I would clean up their beaches. I would campaign for everyone to help, there beach are not always clean and the ocean is worst. There is a lot of beautiful villages on the oceans, and they are dying for tourist. They don’t realized that the way they keep their beach will never attract tourist. For them the beach and the ocean is something different, it is not a leisure place. I asked a lot of questions and observe a great deal while on their beach. I didn’t understand why their beach are so polluted with detritus. I never saw anyone throwing or leaving anything behind. So I couldn’t understand , when I asked, they would say, it is the fault of the older people, they don’t understand plastic does not return to the earth. The elderly spent their entire live living of nature, and returning things to nature, for them, it is unconceivable that something cannot be return to the planet. They know a banana leaf will eventually return to the earth and plastic should do the same. But it still didn’t make sense, until I came home and did some research. The culprit is not really the Balinese. It didn’t make sense to me, people almost everywhere I went I was so impress how the streets and the villages were very clean, compare to Jamaica,India,Republic Dominican, China and places like that. Bali, specially Ubud are the ultimate, cleanest, tropical destinations I ever seen. So, why so much garbage in the ocean? Please google “Citarum River” and see those videos on you tube and more. This is something the entire planet needs to be aware of. I have never seen something so horrible, if we don’t do anything about this, the entire planet will be affected. Costeau’s son, recently, reported they found flip flops in the bottom of the ocean at the north pole. I assure you, no one wears flip flops in the Arctic. The Citarum river is in Indonesia just oust of Java. Java and Indonesia are like a different world compare to Bali. There is a lot of similarity with Bali and Quebec in Canada. It is like a country within a country, but without being a country! Balinese are the only one in Indonesia to speaks that language, although they must learn Indonesia in school, they have a different religion than the rest of Indonesia who is Muslim, they are living very differently than the rest of Indonesia. They respect the nature and life. They believe about balance in life and would never hurt nature as they know it will revenge. Their culture is different, there food is different, everything is different than the rest of Indonesia. So Bali is not responsible for the Citarum River. You can also log on to; www.feww.wordpress.com fire earth is an organization denouncing abuse of the planet. I warn you, those photos are very upsetting, it is unconceivable, humans can think there would be no consequence to such collective behavior. If there is anyone out there, reading my blog, and as a solution, an idea for action, anything, please contact me. We simply cannot leave this up to them, they will keep destroying and polluting important bodies of water. Too bad their religion, does not preach respect nature in all its aspect. They are so fervent of their religion, if this was in the book, they would never act this way. Sadly, the nature might revenge before we can act, with great consequences. And then it will be too late!
Is it safe there? I felt safer there than back home! There is only one jail, it is in Denpasar, a big urban city with millions of people and immigrants. Because of their culture and respect for life they would never think of doing something that would not be right.
Will you insert photos in your blog? Yes, my intention is to do so. When I have time and money, I wish to have the text edit and I will add some very interesting facts about Balinese life and culture, but for now, I must focus on completing my book.
Why would you want to live there? Because Bali, is about everything I embrace in life. Their culture is beautiful and they believe and live their life with respect to life, nature and humans. They believe that everything in life is about balance. Their priorities are family and friends. I love the food, the availability of fresh produce, the climate, the scenery, the people, the music, the choice of restaurants. They have an open mind. There you don’t have to have a commercial land to open a business, you just need a beautiful setting, a good business project and staff and there you go. Here they don’t grasp that eco tourism, must be considered differently. In North America, you can only open a business that is granted commercial zoning. Who wants to spend the night in an eco tourism business that sits on a commercial road . An eco tourism business or green business, must be in a green environment, with a scenic view or stunning green space. For example, we have a beautiful property in Hockley Valley, with one of those million dollar view, but better!It is sheltered by the forest, it is like an oasis on top of a mountain, with a 360 degree view. The view of the valley is stunning, only from there, you can see only picture, the glacier gliding into the valley, it is very obvious, the valley was created by them. We are actually a lot higher than the Hockley Ski resort. For years I have dreamed of opening a spa with finish bath and sauna. One, as since open in Collingwood, but in Hockley it would be such an addition to the region, being only an hour away from Toronto. We could never dream of opening such a zen place, because the authorities of the Niagara escarpment and the town of Mono, can’t think out of the box. They have not think about green commercial zonage yet, eco tourism would be such an asset for Ontario. It would bring so much to the world, people would be more conscientious of their planet.
If you had to describe Bali with one word only, what would that word be? Magical!

Thank you for following this journey with me.

Sadly on my way home, leaving beautiful Bali

Last day in Benoa. The weather is still beautiful, I just can’t get over the fact, that a month as gone by already. It truly does not feel like it.
I didn’t go to Jimbaran, I didn’ t know why I didn’t really want to go eat live lobster, I had many reasons but didn’t exactly know why. Here everybody as a friend that owns a restaurant on the beach at Jimbaran, and offers to pick you upand drive you back for free! This did not raise any questions in my mind, because I saw Mc Delivery here, pick up is not good enough, here McDonald will deliver your fast food . First I thoughtI just didn't want to go anywhere I need it to drive too, I wanted to stay in this area, I don’t have time to go there and there. Also, I felt guilty having a mouthwatering crustacean without my husband who loves crab. It didn’t feel right with me and I would not of enjoyed my diner alone with a big lobster. And the third reason is, do I really want to go somewhere they will screw up my lobster. Every time I have ask for cold shrimp in my salad, they yes it is possible, but the shrimps are always arrive hot. Here a shrimp cocktail is hot, never cold. So I know they would off serve me my lobster hot, and only like seafood cold. When its cold it brings the sweetness and flavor out lot more than hot. But if it's luke warm I will not enjoy my meal.
On the way to the airport even the taxi driver ask me if I been to Jimbaran I said no, he made it sound like I miss something extraordinary. I ask him to stop at the big nice monument in town so I can take one last photo and ask him what the monument was about, and he said, for the bomming victims. I knew one had been in Kuta, I didn’t know where was the second one. Jimbaran is where the last bomb hit. Now, I know why everyone want you to go there. I guess many tourist stay away from that area, and all the Balinese are connected together to bring tourist there. It is known to be the place for live seafood, caught right there in the ocean in the morning. Did I mention that the thought of eating a lobster in water that if full of garbage didn’t appeal to me either? If the only two beaches I seen were dirty, most likely the rest are too. I was explained what is happening in Bali, since the beginning of time, the habitants of Bali found their food in the nature and cultivated some of their food. Then, they throw everything back to the nature. If they eat in a banana leaf plate, the leaf is thrown back to the nature. If they cook food in a piece of bamboo, the bamboo goes back to the nature. They live their entire life in symbiosis with the nature. The last generation now, has been throwing back all plastic to the nature, because all they know, is that you can make anything from the nature and the nature will decompose it. They cannot comprehend plastic is not decomposable, how can something found in this planet not decompose. It is hard to educate those people living in remote area, or very pool. I was told that in school the kids are thought not to throw the plastic away. But the eldest really don’t get it, they either burn the plastic or throw it in the nature. The younger are trying to teach the oldest you can’t throw plastic into the nature or burn it, as it is very toxic. I can understand what is going on, what happen to the Balinese, they got invaded by plastic too, and they didn’t know at the time it wouldn’t decompose or you cannot burn it, they might have had a second though.
They also believe that the water makes everything disappear because it always did for hundreds of years. I saw in Benoa some students that were cleaning the mangrove, which is a good sign. They understand the importance of the mangrove and the younger generation will try to save it, but what is happening in Bali is happening everywhere else, with the poor countries of the world. Now, we have to reverse the damage, and a lot of the damage in poor countries is done unknowingly by its habitants.

I arrive in time at the airport,early enough so I can eat. I am a bit surprise how you find many McDonalds in this area, but it is logical for them to be here. Lots of tourist, it’s a big city, culture goes out the window here too. I was curious to see the menu here, but too much luggage to check it out. If you want to eat here, the restaurants are all outsides in the scorching heat, No food inside the airport, that is a bit strange and I am glad I asked, otherwise I would off been stuck inside the airport with no food to eat but junk. So I ordered take out and went in, in the much cooler environment. I am flying with Air China to Taipan is it is very interesting to observe the Asian's behaviors. I watch them in Ubud as well, as they would go to Ubud in a charter bus to shop for the day. When they were in Ubud, you couldn’t walk on the sidewalk of Monkey Forest Road. They were so numerous. They must be the champion of shopping, not just their women but the men’s as well. I think brands do well because of their fierce appétite for brand names. They love brand name, the more expensive, the more popular the brand is!One thing boggles me, they seem to be champion at shopping, but I would like to know where they get their sense of fashion. It is absolutely indescribable. They will wear a Coach purse, with some backpack that looks like it belongs to a two year old, some ugly designer skirt that looks like it comes from Value Village, a top that is far from matching anything they are wearing, with a bright neon oversized pair of crock's! They own every gadget on the planet, as you watch them wait, they are all busy pushing some bottoms, no one talks to each other, they have a conversation with a piece of metal and plasticl As I Iook around, they all have an ipod in a pocket, a camera around the neck and either standing or walking while texting. For them, going to Indonesia to shop, is like going to heaven, they get lot more for their money as their currency is very strong (Japanese). Many just fly over for a week end, it is still cheaper than shopping back home. They are also, starting to invest in Bali. In a newspaper I saw a statistique of the increase of foreigners residents in Bali. Japan was first in the progression of foreigners moving to Bali with an increase of 41% compare to last year. The official number of Japanese immigrants, was 1797 in 2009. They are now, side by side with the Australian who have been immigrating for years to Bali. If you are curious Canada is in 11th place with only 210 immigrants. I sure hope to be in the new statistic one day.
The return, is a long flight but shorter than when I came in. From Denpasar, we have a four hour flight to Taipei. In Taipei some two and half hour wait for the next flight. There I spent some time looking at their duty free shop, our duty free shops are nothing compare to Taipei!. If you want to see rare and fancy liquor they have it all!. I have no more doubt now, believing, as I heard they spend $1000 on a tiny bottle of iced wine from Canada. They have exclusive cognac, sake, iced wine and so many special edition liqueur. Even special edition from France. I don’t like liquor but it is fun to look at the bottles who are all more exclusive than the other. They are so expensive they are in a glass case that no one can open.Sometime a guard stands beside a particular one. I am glad, I didn’t buy any liquor. Because when you have a transit, you have to go through security again. No liquid is allowed over 10 ml. They don’t care how much it’s worth they take it away, no matter what.
We arrived in Vancouver early enough for me to see the beautiful mountains, covered in snow. Since I have been away for a month, I have no idea how the Olympic went, since when I left they was not a lot of snow for the competitions. There is still a few athletes in the airport, returning home, but they are all in a wheelchair. I still have a few hours to go, so I go to Tim Horton to get a bagel and a coffee. I have not had anything like this in awhile. The coffee was aweful; I forgot how I don’t like Tim Horton’s coffee, I have been drinking real good coffee in the morning, without any bitterness and full of flavor. The coffee in Bali is so good that I barely used milk, when you did used milk, the coffee still remain dark. It was nice to hear Canadian news on the big screen tv in the waiting area, but it made me realized, do we ever go without any murders for a week?. We have so much violence here compare to Bali. The only jail is in Denpasar, as it is a big city, there is sometime trouble there too, but I was told murdering someone is an extremely rare casualty. Crime there is mainly theft and still for a country that is not so rich, theft is not common as we would imagine. Once we boarded the West Jet flight, it really felt like I was truly on my way home. We had West Jet most friendly and funny flight attendant team ever. Specially Wendy who was the Flight attendant in charge, she had a talent and should be a one woman show! After her first announcement, I said out loud, I need some of that coffee you are drinking, everybody laugh and the men next to me said, that is not coffee, but something else! Here is some of her funny instruction or announcement;
On the welcoming announcement she invited anyone with a bad mood to walk of the plane now, as they do not take passengers in a bad mood! She then announce the light will be tame down during the flight as recent studies shows that when reducing lights during flights, it slows the appearance of wrinkles of the flight attendants. Please, be aware that the arm rest can be lifted in case you need to stay tucked in your seat, please use the arm rest, if you don’t wish to be found drewling all over your neighbor in a big profound sleep! For your convenience the head rest, also wraps around your head for better stability. If ever the cabin pressure drop, a mask will drop in front of you, put the mask over your sniffer and kisser…Ok let’s get this Boeing going!...This buckle belt as been around since the 60”s, if you never seen one of those, we have them here…. If you have any question write it on the back of a $50 bill, I promise, will get back to you…The lighting system on the floor as been approved by Martha Stewart…
She was so hilarious, everyone clapped at the end of her last announcement. It was nice to laugh like this, after a long trip and nice to see there is still people with a good sense of humor. And the entire team was happy going with lots of vitality. If she would off worked for Air Canada, they would probably penalized her for inappropriate conduct, during her announcements. I am very happy and so were the other passengers, that West Jet lets her bring some humor into those boring announcement. I hope to find the time, to let West Jet know that we appreciate her sense of humor and the team smile. Someone like this deserves to be notice. She was so funny and talented; I was thinking if I was a producer I would get a hold of her!
And I arrived in Toronto at 6:00 am not a minute before, as we are not allowed to land before 6am, in a beautiful sunny and warm day. We all say good bye to the people we have made conversations with during the numerous flights and it really hits me now, back to the normal life. I will greatly miss Bali. I love travelling and appreciate every culture and country I visit, but this is the first time I encounter a strong sense of belonging there, and wanting to move there. Rather I will ever be able to convince my husband of this is another story! I am sure it would be an easy sell if it wasn’t on the other side of the globe! When you think of it, it is far away, I was only two hours away from Australia. When I arrived home, it felt so weird and different. The morning are so quite, compare to the wonderful birds signing in Bali, it was so strange that I went for a walk in the mountain, still, there is no birds signing,during mid day. I will miss all the birds you hear every day, they kind of fill the background for you. Now, I will have to put on, one of those CD you use when you are at a spa, with the birds and the water in the background, it is so relaxing, it as a soothing therapeutic effect. I know now, as I feel strange without the noise, they are truly calming and soothing.

I would like to express my gratitude to my loving husband, who probably just had the longest month of his life. I am greatful for his fidelity and trust, patience, understanding and love.I would like to thank everyone who followed my journey, I did not feel so lonely with you in my life. I know the blog was full of spelling mistakes, as someone amically commented that the orthography would make a second year English major blush, but this blog is at least authentique! What matters is not the perfection of the English text, what matters is the journey.I hope, you still understood the fundamentals. I wish to thank every one that had a thought or pray for my computer, so it does not let me down due the humid heat it had to endure. My laptop made it home without crashing! If you wonder what made it possible, it is called Quantum physics, you should look it up, I cannot explain this one to you but I can give you something very powerful to do. I did it while in Bali, and good things started to happen, as you witness on my blog. Do this exercice once a month, it takes only 23 minutes of your time, you dont need to understand how it works or what you read, just sit there and go with the flow, see how your life will start to change. It is free, so use it, pass it along to all your friends. It was important for me to introduce you to Quantum physics as I talk about it in my book.Go to;
www.quantumk.co.uk/quantumk_video.htm
Do not hesitate to send me your comments and I do accept donations for my future return to Bali!! Love you all, read my last blog about Bali after Easter, before we return to blog about tea!Donations and comments can be sent to; thetealady@bellnet.ca
And don't forget to have a good laugh today, laughing is what keeps us young at heart and happy. A life without laugh is also a life with illness and health issues. Laugh is the best medicine, and one that no one can charge you for it!